In an October 2009 Conference talk about the Book of Mormon Elder Jeffrey R. Holland stated the following after comparing those who lose belief in Mormonism to natural disasters and identifying them as those whose "hearts have failed them":

"If anyone is foolish enough or misled enough to reject 531 pages of a heretofore unknown text teeming with literary and Semitic complexity without honestly attempting to account for the origin of those pages--especially without accounting for their powerful witness of Jesus Christ and the profound spiritual impact that witness has had on what is now tens of millions of readers--if that is the case, then such a person, elect or otherwise, has been deceived; and if he or she leaves this Church, it must be done by crawling over or under or around the Book of Mormon to make that exit."

This writeup is for Elder Holland and anyone who feels as he feels. Oddly enough, the Book of Mormon was what unexpectedly sparked my exit. This is a situation where we need to understand and hear each other. This book is being used as a key justification for teaching people's parents, children, spouses, siblings, friends, and extended families to view their loved ones as foolish, lost, deceived, disasters, unworthy, and as people whom God will separate from their families in the next life. In my view, if a belief system makes such divisive claims and creates such high stakes for people's lives, then its adherents have a duty to vet and scrutinize those beliefs to be sure this division and harm is justified.